Back after a while … with this … how do we define friendship, what
do we expect and what do we get … read more and maybe you will have someone
agreeing with you …
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True friendship has always been talked about, from men points of
view and from women points of view … and to some extent, there was rather a
different perspective to both parties …
So, what usually men want from friendship, well … as simple as
someone to talk to, trust and hang out with you’d say … maybe more others will
add like business, mutual interests and so many other things …
That perspective from a woman point of view appears so simple and naïve,
due to the fact that “not all men are the same”, OK, a lot of people will agree
here “Men will laugh”, “Women will continue reading carefully” …
Now, what do women want from friendship is rather different, apart
from the simple things, they want someone who could never be mistaken, an Angel
who would correct their mistakes “if any are found according to them”, and some
would “prefer men as friend” due to the fact that “women do get so jealous from
each other” …
The point of friendship as a lot of people see it, whether it was
Men with each other or a mixed gender one “which a lot of you would find not
right, somehow”, is all about trust; which includes honesty, keeping a word, and
defining limitation to what someone you know as a “friend” can reach … that
last one always depends on the person as some people simply do not have limits
as they know some of the trust points does not apply to themselves as well.
So, what makes a good friend, a very tough question, especially these
days … where a lot of fake things appear in people’s life, virtual things,
virtual friends and so on … very hard to predict someone’s real feelings or
intentions towards someone else.
Our daily life has all become part of technology that we say “we
keep in touch with”, but I think that technology thought us “oh everyone is so
close”, oh through Skype they are “VIRTUALLY” … that is the point
Many people around the world have virtual friends; not that it is
bad, no, but it’s due to the fact that many people can’t find true feelings
with real people around them so they try to find these things in virtual
reality …
Having a lot of friends is a good thing, the bad thing is having a
lot of friends and expect to rely on 90% of them someday, because only the 10%
will be there for you approximately … as the saying “1 friend for 100 years is
better than 100 friend in a year” … and "hard times always reveal true friends" ...
I hope I’ll be back to posting more in this blog …
Thanks for checking this out … subscribe and share if you like or
comment if you’re up for discussion or any question … J
See you again Soon
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