Wednesday 2 January 2013

True Friendship …


Back after a while … with this … how do we define friendship, what do we expect and what do we get … read more and maybe you will have someone agreeing with you …
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True friendship has always been talked about, from men points of view and from women points of view … and to some extent, there was rather a different perspective to both parties …

So, what usually men want from friendship, well … as simple as someone to talk to, trust and hang out with you’d say … maybe more others will add like business, mutual interests and so many other things …

That perspective from a woman point of view appears so simple and naïve, due to the fact that “not all men are the same”, OK, a lot of people will agree here “Men will laugh”, “Women will continue reading carefully” …

Now, what do women want from friendship is rather different, apart from the simple things, they want someone who could never be mistaken, an Angel who would correct their mistakes “if any are found according to them”, and some would “prefer men as friend” due to the fact that “women do get so jealous from each other” …

The point of friendship as a lot of people see it, whether it was Men with each other or a mixed gender one “which a lot of you would find not right, somehow”, is all about trust; which includes honesty, keeping a word, and defining limitation to what someone you know as a “friend” can reach … that last one always depends on the person as some people simply do not have limits as they know some of the trust points does not apply to themselves as well.

So, what makes a good friend, a very tough question, especially these days … where a lot of fake things appear in people’s life, virtual things, virtual friends and so on … very hard to predict someone’s real feelings or intentions towards someone else.

Our daily life has all become part of technology that we say “we keep in touch with”, but I think that technology thought us “oh everyone is so close”, oh through Skype they are “VIRTUALLY” … that is the point

Many people around the world have virtual friends; not that it is bad, no, but it’s due to the fact that many people can’t find true feelings with real people around them so they try to find these things in virtual reality …

Having a lot of friends is a good thing, the bad thing is having a lot of friends and expect to rely on 90% of them someday, because only the 10% will be there for you approximately … as the saying “1 friend for 100 years is better than 100 friend in a year” … and "hard times always reveal true friends" ...

I hope I’ll be back to posting more in this blog …

Thanks for checking this out … subscribe and share if you like or comment if you’re up for discussion or any question … J

See you again Soon

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